10 reasons why you should never date a married man

Reasons You Should Not Date A Married Man

There are no positive reasons for dating a married man. Even the good reasons don’t stand the test of time and turn out to be bad ideas in good ideas’ clothing. After a brief research on why ladies get involved with married men it was discovered that most times this ladies go after married men because they are rich, compared to their broke boyfriend. They are more caring, for they know how to take care of them and they are always there for them. They have security and connection through this men. But ask yourself if its really worth it, losing your pride and dignity for something so lowly and vain.

A woman with even an ounce of pride would NEVER share

someone else’s husband. If you find yourself on the brink of temptation, look at these 10 truths before you leap:

1. It is so wrong

Of all the reasons not to get involved with a married man, the primary one has to be this: it’s just plain wrong. Both a married man and his girlfriend can come up with all sorts of reasons to justify what they’re doing – it’s real love, his wife doesn’t treat him right, etc. Those are excuses but cheat*ng is never right, and a person with dignity just wouldn’t be part of it.Getting involved with a married man is so wrong even for all the right reasons. Society frowns at it, God detests fornication, and you aren’t being fair to even yourself.

2. He is the winner

He’s got his cake and is eating it, too. He has a legitimate married relationship that helps his public persona and he has an illegitimate one with you to make up for what he’s missing in his marriage.He can spend his days with you and his nights with his wife; if you ask us, he is very blessed. When he is tired of you, he can move on with no strings attached, and don’t think he won’t. If he could do that to someone to whom he is legally bound, what will he do to you who only has his words? He is the one who is being hailed by his friends as “the really big man” while you are the husband- snatcher. He wins, for while his mor*le is always high, yours will be low, for you will have no dignity or pride again.

3. He won’t leave her for you

We don’t care how many promises he made to you, don’t expect him to leave her and come marry you. So you can start preparing yourself for a heartbreak when he moves on to someone else who is just as naive. And yes he’ll find someone sweeter, shapelier and better than you ever are. pity you, he goes home to his wife, you go home wishing he it had lasted forever.

4. He might not be who you think he is

We hear stories about how some girls were used for ritual sacrifice, it isn’t a day that the act is perpetuated, the married man could have kept stuffing the girl with money and food, like a broiler waiting for the day he’ll slaughter her for money ritual. But of course he wouldn’t use his wife. You don chop, come die, funny. Besides you will never know for sure where he is, what he is doing, and who he is doing it with. There is always two sides to every story and unfortunately, you will never know any other side but his.

5. You’ll always be his little secret

No one can know about you. Not family, not respectable friends, you can’t go out with him in public because you just might get caught either by his family or yours. Plain and simple, he doesn’t want anybody to know about you for the fear of making himself look bad.Prepare for a hide-and-seek affair. You really can’t call what you are having a relationship, think of it more like a hide and seek game.And hiding can be exhausting, having to keep your relationship a secret can attack your self-esteem and cause you to miss out on one of the wonderful aspects of a relationship. Walking together freely and radiantly through the world can fill you with the glow of being with someone who is proud to be with you. So why even bother?

6. Lose his respect and it’s over

It is pretty obvious that immediately you accept his offer, his respect for you is gone. because he is thinking “she’s after my money” so the likeness reduces and you become his little puppet, he’ll start stringing you around. So even though he’s the one who pursued you, even though he’s the one that made it difficult to say “No.” And even though he tells you how wonderful you are. At some level, he’s going to have trouble respecting you for settling for such a flawed relationship. Watch it, so he wont wash you

7. You’re kidding yourself

Despite that he tells you he loves you, rea$$uring you how much you mean to him, his not ending his relationship with his wife and coming into your arms speaks for itself, you are a second best. A mediocre, and you are worth having fun with but not marrying. If such is the case why settle for less when you can go for your type.

8. Time is too precious to waste

Ever notice how quickly the years go as you get older? And so matter how you try you will look older, especially since you are dating an older man, fact. Because it’s convenient and comfortable, a relationship with a married man can go on for a long time, it will therefore deter you from having a serious relationship. And omo! before you know it you have eaten up the precious time you might have had in a healthy relationship with a chance of flourishing with an old man.

9. Loyalty is not one of his strong points

Obviously. If he can cheat on her{his wife}, he would do it to you. He made a vow when he married her and he clearly couldn’t follow through with it. What would make you think you’re any different than her? Infact your stand is even worse for you have no legal backing. I’m sure you do know this, yes?

10. Beware it can boomerang

There is no fool proof in cheat*ng, even though you have all the sides covered and a schedule to keep your activities secret, remember “everyday is for the thief and one day is for the owner” but omo! that one day go brutal die, when the madam of the oga you have been sharing catch you pants down. Heh! heh! you will cry tears will not come and you’ll receive public disgrace and be humiliated. And its funny that many men (and women) have difficulty accepting full responsibility for their deceitful actions. Human nature finds it easier to blame than to accept shame. If he is caught by his wife or conscience, don’t be surprised if he tries to blame you and get you to take the fall.

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1. It’s a scientific fact

Scientific research proves that men are genetically wired to be s exually attracted to a woman with curves. Men rate the s exiest women as those who have a waist which is 60% of their hip size. Guys love our hourglass figure – not least of all in the b edroom.

2. Confidence

Having bobbis and a backside, a bit of cellulite or something to grab hold of is not exclusively what makes a curvy woman s exy – it’s knowing how to rock it that matters. Beauty has nothing to do with size and everything to do with confidence. And confidence has everything to do with amazing s ex.

3. A healthy appetite

Nothing is s exier than a woman who knows how to indulge – she wants the cake she eats it, she wants the wine she drinks it, she wants the orgasm, prepare yourself, no one’s leaving this room until …

4. Life’s too short to go gluten- free

Or you could date the girl who refuses to swallow (extra calories), won’t eat dessert and spends the post-s ex cuddle trying to convert you to a diet.

5. bobbis

Well, not all curvy girls are blessed with big bobbis, but the chances do sway slightly more in their favour.

6. b ums

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7. Let’s focus on the important things…

They don’t care about fitting into a pair of skinny jeans and instead spend their time on fun things like the reverse cow girl and multiple orga.sms.

8. Fewer bruises

Their soft womanly curves are the perfect place to rest your weary, post-shagging head.

9. Curvy girls were the original supermodels

Take a walk through an art gallery and you’ll see that curvy girls have long been associated with beauty and s ex appeal. Thousands of years of history can’t be wrong.

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Basketmouth Didn't Ask Me Directly– Sean Tizzle

Sean Tizzle recently spoke to Naij.com exclusively on his new role in Iyabo Ojo’s movie and the situation between him and Basketmouth.

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You are playing a gigolo in the movie, how close is your characterisation of the role to real life?
That’s not me in any way though. It’s far from who I am in real life and that’s why I say I had to eliminate myself to play the role.”
What led to the issue with Basketmouth and the entire drama surrounding it?
Man, it’s a long story. Basketmouth reached out to my team and I didn’t turn him down. He reached out to my team because it is supposed to be a medium of communication amongst us.
So, what exactly happened?
What happened is, we have some external bodies in the team. These guys act like a form of agency that mediates in the process of getting shows and events. You know I have my manager, my publicist and my producer D’Tunes but he didn’t reach out to any of these people. Rather he spoke to one of our agents, a lady called Rachel, and she gave the monetary details of my performing at any show. Not that it was aimed at Basketmouth or that I was trying to be disrespectful because she was just being professional.
It was a normal conversation between a person reaching out to get an artiste to come on his show and is like: ‘Can we get Sean Tizzle to perform at a show at a certain time?’ And she says: ‘Yeah, he’s available and this is the fee.’ She wasn’t being rude or anything because, I mean, she was really just looking out for herself in the process of doing her job. You have to understand that she gets her cut off every gig I play at and all that. It’s normal. I think she was just being professional with it. And again I think it wasn’t Basketmouth who called, it was his PA who did. So, what do you expect her to do, bro? So the word got back to Basketmouth and he wasn’t okay with it. But at the same time [he] has my contacts, he has my manager’s contacts but didn’t reach us or nothing. In fact, man, we didn’t even know about it until it got out on social media.         
Are you saying he didn’t approach you the right way because he didn’t reach out to you directly?
No I’m not saying that. I won’t say he didn’t approach me the right way. I’m just saying it wasn’t me. Basketmouth didn’t contact me or anyone directly in my team because definitely we won’t disrespect him. We’ve been cool from day one. I can remember my first show in London and it was Basketmouth who called to have me on the list. In short we had a meeting at the place. We sat down and we had this meeting and discussed the full details of the show. We had the conversation and all that. You know he is my big bro in the industry and so I expected that if anything he was supposed to holler at me directly like: ‘Man, Sean, I heard you won’t come on my show if I don’t pay you blab la and all’ …you understand? And I would have been quick to address the situation on ground. But not until it reached social media we didn’t have any idea what was happening. We didn’t even know what was happening. I swear to God we didn’t have a clue.
And it was kind of surprising when word got out to social media that I didn’t want to come on his show. I mean the first time I was on his show he spoke to me directly about it. And what’s even funny is this thing happened about two years ago. It happened in 2013. It is not even a recent incident. And it’s surprising because Basket is someone I really respect in the industry. And I have been seeing him at weddings, shows and all of that. He could easily have said ‘Ah Sean, I don’t like what you did the other time o.’ And I would have addressed the situation as well as apologized immediately.
Did he reach out to you to perform at his Lord Of The Ribs concert on October 4?
Nah. He didn’t say anything to me or anyone around me.
So, from this what is next for you?
Oh I’m grateful to God for where I am presently. I will be dropping about four to five singles before the year runs out. These songs will come with videos as well. I’m dropping a song soon and it’s called Murder Me. Then I’ll be dropping Telephone Man, a song with Sean Kingston’s DJ.
What has it been like working with D’Tunes?
D’Tunes is dope. He is magical.
What makes him magical?
A lot. His percussions are mad and he’s a great producer in terms of he knows how to direct good music. He understands the arrangement of sounds and all the essentials of making a great sound.
Having tried acting for the first time in Astray will you give it another shot?
Yea, definitely I will. I find it really enjoyable and fun. It’s a whole different phase entirely. Initially, I had little doubts in myself but as time went on I got the courage to continue with playing my role in the movie.
How is this experience different from making a music video?   
It is quite different in the sense that acting is deeper and more demanding in terms of timing and how much you get to memorize. You need to put up the right attitude that sells the character well enough and all that. Your facial expressions, body language, and all that. From this experience I would say actors need to be respected a lot for the efforts they put into making movies and stage plays. Honestly.

source   Naij