All of us want to be good in bed.
You obviously want to make your partner clutch their
head in ecstatic orgasms and roll over in bed, gasping
for air after you're done with your deed.
Knowing the art of being good in bed is great, both for
your partner and your ago.
But understanding how to be good in bed isn't just
about rehearsing sex positions or bending over
backwards to try new moves that you read in a book.
To have a good time in bed, you need to remember that
you have a partner who needs to be satisfied, and at the
same time, you need to satisfy yourself too.
Good sex isn't just about the to and fro, it's also about
the sexual aura and the vibes that both of you create
around each other. If both of you feel sexy and
passionate, the sex is almost always going to be
awesome!
How to be good in bed
To have a good time in bed, you need to arouse your
partner and yourself every time you're getting ready to
jump the bed. You need to feel comfortable with the
act, your partner has to be aroused by you, and you
need to be aroused by your partner.
Here are a few things you can do in bed to make your
partner climax better and make your ego feel a lot
better too!
Look good in bed
Wear your best nightwear when you get into bed. It's
easier to wear an old tee shirt and frayed pants, but
that's never going to create the same impact as sexy
negligee, would it? Dress in comfortable lingerie or
boxers that enhance your sexiness and make you look
good. Arousal starts with the eyes, so work on your
magic by looking good for your partner. And always
remember this, the better you look when you're on the
verge of having sex, the better the sex will be!
Feel sexy and attractive
Do you like your own body enough to let your hands
linger on yourself now and then?
When you like the way you look and feel sexy from
within, you'd enjoy yourself a lot more when you're
having sex, and so will your partner. Lovemaking
involves two people, so when you feel uncomfortable
or awkward about your own body, your partner
wouldn't feel excited too. People don't have bad sex
because they can't get wet or get an erection. They have
bad sex when the sexual vibes don't feel right. If you
feel sexy and attractive, you'd enjoy the fact that
someone else can get to see the sexy you!
Sex is natural and so is your body
Sex is natural and not something you need to feel
uncomfortable about. Most of us are constantly
reminded throughout our childhood that sex is a bad
thing. But now that you're all grown up, you need to get
over all the negativity you have about sex. Sex is a
natural and exciting act that's meant to be enjoyed.
Sex is something that can get better with time, just as
long as you're willing to give it enough time and
attention to understand what works and what doesn't,
just like counting calories when it comes to nutritious
food. To be good in bed, you need to learn more about
sex, your body and the body of the opposite sex.
Take time to understand what works and what doesn't
and use it to your benefit. When you're confident about
what you're doing in bed, you're definitely going to be
great at it too.
Indulge in good foreplay
Women love foreplay, men don't really care much
about it. But that doesn't mean you or your partner
should compromise just to satisfy each other. You
should understand that sex isn't about compromising.
It's about indulging in something that'll excite both of
you.
If you're the woman, dress up for sex or put on some
sexy lingerie. Your man will obviously take his time
undressing you, especially when you look so good in
what you're wearing. And as his hands and lips trace
your lingerie, he's going to spend a while teasing your
body and running his hands all over.
At other times, play an adult movie that stretches for
more than twenty minutes. Slip your clothes off and
cuddle up while watching it in bed. Within a few
minutes, before either of you realize it, you'll be
indulging in foreplay and watching a great turn on
movie at the same time!
He likes it, she likes it, and everybody likes it! Who says
foreplay has to be compromised to satisfy a partner.
Always look for ways to create happy experiences,
instead of settling for a compromise.
Explore your sexual side
If you want to know how to be good in bed, start
exploring your sexual side. Each time you feel like the
sex is starting to get monotonous, try something new
to spice it back up. There are so many things that
couples do to keep the excitement up on a high, and
each of them are as unique as the couple themselves.
Always remember that nothing is ever wrong in bed as
long as the people involved enjoy it. And you'll never
really know how good something is unless you try it.
Understanding how to be good in bed can be simple,
if you remember to create new experiences all the
time and focus on your partner's satisfaction at the
same time
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